GET A GRIP AND QUIT RUNNING

Your heart’s beating
Your mind’s racing
All of a sudden you’re asking yourself, is it too good to be true? 

That moment when you realise,
You’ve received what you’ve asked for.

The goals - they’re off the vision board and they’re now your reality.

But you don’t feel any different really,
In fact,
If anything,
You feel anxious,
Concerned,
Uneasy.

Deep down, this is what you’ve wanted.
It’s what you’ve worked for.
It’s what you’ve focused on.
It’s what you’ve dreamed about.
It’s what you’ve day dreamed about.

And here it is.
On a silver platter.
You’ve arrived.

But this can’t be right!
It can’t be this easy!
It must take more WORK than this?
It must take more SWEAT than this?
It must take more STRUGGLE than this?

But this is what you wanted?
Why don’t you just enjoy it?

Oh - because you’re too busy freaking out.
Got it.

You weren’t conditioned that things could happen this easily.
You weren’t conditioned that if you actually asked for what you want, you have the ability for it to show up, with rapid speed.
You weren’t conditioned to believe that anything was possible.

So what do you do?

You go into self destruct mode.

You don’t want it.
You don’t need it.
You got it wrong.
It’s not for you.
It doesn’t feel right.
You want to go back to what you had before.

Yes, yes, that’s right.
You want to go back to what you had before.
You MISS what you had before.

I mean,
That was comfy.
That was safe.
That was easy.
That was secure.

Yes yes yes, SEE, this life,
The one that you’ve been YEARNING for,
It’s not for you.

You don’t belong here.
You don’t belong with these people.
You don’t belong in this lifestyle.

I mean really, it’s not all that you thought it would be cut out to be, right?

Run then.
You want to run.
Fast, far and now.
You want to run now.

You’re saying: You don’t think I can run?

Oh, I believe you can run!
Just as quickly as you created you ultimate reality,
You can destroy it,
Just as quickly,
Or even quicker.

Because I told you,
It’s not for you.

You miss the old life…..

Self sabotage is a bitch.
And I promise you - it WILL set out to destroy everything that you work at creating - if you’re not aware that you’re even doing it.

If you’re created some epic things in your life and just as quickly as you’ve received them, you’ve destroyed them, then LISTEN UP.

It doesn’t have to be like that.

The self sabotage is (strangely) trying to keep you safe.
It’s trying to keep you from up levelling.
It’s trying to keep you from transforming.
It’s trying to keep you from living the life that you ACTUALLY dream of.

Why?

Because it’s scary.
It’s unknown,
And it processes the next level as “unsafe”.

And what is safe?

Your comfort zone honey.
That’s what safe.

Your nice, little, loving, safe, comfort zone.

And you KNOW.
That is NOT where you grow.
In fact, that’s where you go BACKWARDS.

Greatness was never achieved in your comfort zone.

SO my master self sabotager,
Well done!
You’re so good at sabotaging that I could give you a medal.

Or,
You could chuck that medal away,
Grow a back bone,
And stand with strength to face what you desire.
Stare fear in the eye.
Stare self doubt in the eye.
And kick that comfort zone right back to where it belongs.

Or, you can run.

Your life,
Your call.

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So remember,
You ABSOLUTELY can have it all - if you get a GRIP on your self sabotaging behavior!

Regan x