IT GOT WORSE AND WORSE AND WORSE AND STARTED TO KILL ME INSIDE

IT GOT WORSE AND WORSE AND WORSE AND STARTED TO KILL ME INSIDE

When I first started in business at the ripe old age of 18,
(And I mean seriously started, beyond small kid “ventures”),
I thought I had to be something I wasn’t.
I thought I had to be older,
Brighter,
Smarter,
More serious,
More something.

And after making those decisions,
I started to morph into, that.

Then when I started speaking and coaching,
It got even worse.
All of a sudden I realised that people were looking up to me,
Following me,
Buying from me personally.

And SURELY I wasn’t good enough,
To just show up as me,
So I made some more decisions:

I need to be more professional,
I can’t be silly - definitely don’t be silly,
I need to dress a certain way,
And I need people to take me seriously,
Because,
I AM serious about this.

And piece by piece,
I shut off parts of myself.

The silly part,
The fun part,
The part who deep down wants to be seen and heard,
The part who wants to perform,
The slightly dorky part,
The part who won beauty pageants and was a professional model,
Because I was a COACH now,
And coaches don’t “do” that.

I hid all of my modelling photos that were on Facebook,
Removed the images of me drumming in various bands,
Ensured that I always had makeup on when shooting a video,
And if caught in a moment of hysterical laughter,
That certainly wasn’t see anywhere publicly,
Because hey,
I might look silly…

And piece by piece,
Moment by moment,
I began to fade away.

On the outside it looked glamorous,
Fun,
Successful,
And people envied my life.

But on the inside,
Something was missing,
Something wasn’t stacking up,
Something didn’t make sense.

And as my “success” increased,
I continued to die inside,
Getting further and further away from who I was at my core.

And one day I snapped.
I remember it so clearly.
I was in Bali on a 3 week holiday,
Before I lived location free.

And having a chance to stop and take a look from the inside out,
It hit me.

What the hell was I doing?

I was standing there talking about truth,
About authenticity,
About self love,
About how powerful people are,

Yet I was standing there completely unauthentically,
Hiding myself away from the world.

And in that moment I made a decision.
A decision to bring ALL of me to the table.
The good,
The not so good,
The goofy,
The sexy,
The fun,
The geeky,
The ranty,
The composed,
The serious,
The down right stupid,
And more.

I made a decision that I would start showing up as ME,
And not in a cliche way,
I mean the word ME with total depth.
Total commitment,
Total sincerity.

And it wasn’t easy,
In fact,
It scared me shitless,
And often still does.

But I choose to push through,
I choose to ditch the filters,
And ditch the social norms,
And ditch the opinions of others,
Ditch with is considered is right,
Or wrong,
Or not the correct way to do something…

Now when I shifted,
Everything shifted.
My impact,
My income,
My visibility,
My business,
And most importantly,
My happiness.

Although it can be scary,
Or awkward,
Or hard to stand in your own light,
TRUST ME when I say,
That there is honestly no better feeling,
Than going to bed every night,
KNOWING that you are operating daily from a space of pure TRUTH!

And guess what,
The quest never stops…
As you evolve,
If you are committed to showing up in your truth,
You will constantly push yourself to go deeper and deeper, and deeper.

This is the exact work that I do with my private clients,
Helping them TRULY step into the core of who they are,
And again,
It’s not easy,
And it’s a journey,
But one that is worth it over and over.

Working with my clients privately 1:1,
We dig deep into their authentic core and face some very honest truths,
About exactly what it is that they are dying to unleash into the world,
Whilst working at the parts of themselves that have blocked this,
Or have stopped them shining in the past,
As the star that they were born to be.

>>> I currently have one place to work with me privately opening up at the end of this week.
Yes it is intense.
Yes we talk daily.
Yes you're right, there is no room to hide.
Yes it is super high level.

If you know you are ready to shift to this level,
Then send me a private message ASAP to find out how to apply.

So please remember,
You absolutely CAN have it all,
If you bring ALL of you to the table…

Regan x

IT’S TIME TO SET YOUR SOUL ON FIRE

IT’S TIME TO SET YOUR SOUL ON FIRE

I can see it in your eyes,
The flames,
The burning desires,
The dreams,
The yearning,
The determination…

I can feel it when your heart beats,
It’s electric,
It’s passionate,
It’s addictive.

And I can also feel the tension,
The pull,
Between wanting to hide,
And wanting to stand up and fully unleash what you have to create.

Why are you playing small?
Why are you hiding?
What are you afraid of?
Really…

You were born to make an impact,
You were born to be a star,
You were born to make people stare,
You were born to stand for what you believe in.

But NOTHING is going to shift,
If you don’t actually climb up onto that damn stage darling.

And I get it.
The stage might not be as big as you want,
Or the perfect colour,
Or exactly as you pictured it,
But it’s still a stage!
And you’re a god damn super star,
So what the hell are you doing?

It is not honourable to play small,
It is not honourable to hide,
It is not honourable to give into fear,
To excuses,
Or to self doubt,

In fact,
That is SELFISH.
Because there are people who NEED to hear you,
They NEED to hear what you have to say,
They NEED you to give them permission to shine,
They NEED you to perform as you were born to.

Yet you continue to allow yourself to be pulled.
One minute your crown is on,
The next it’s hidden in the back of the wardrobe,
And if you’re walking around saying you want to impact millions,
Then that is NO okay.

It’s all right there.
So close that I can nearly see it,
And you can nearly touch it,
In fact,
You can taste it.

But trust me when I say,
It will continue to remain JUST that far away,
Unless you truly begin to step up.

It’s time.
It’s your time.
Time to unleash,
And set your soul on fire.

You were BORN for this.

Now get up,
Focus,
Take a deep breath,
And carry on super star…

>>> P.S I am thinking about running a 5 day challenge,
That will be ALL about unleashing your true message that you were born to impact the world with.Getting clear on your ultimate purpose in life,
And harnessing that inner superstar,
So that you can go out into the world with clarity, confidence and conviction.

--- Give me a "HELL YES" if you want me to run it,
And receive further details…

So remember,
You absolutely CAN have it all,
If you set your soul on fire…

Regan x

WARRIOR TV

WARRIOR TV

After an overnight flight from Bali, Sydney has delivered this morning!

Had so much fun being interviewed in the studio by the team at Warrior TV today about online empire building!!

But seriously Sydney, you're SO cold?!!!

 

BLIND THE CULT OF AVERAGE WITH YOUR LIGHT

You are are a star.

You are a goddess.

You were put here for a reason.

And boy, do you know it.

The moment people are watching,

You shine so bright.

It’s like the switch is flicked,

Instantly.

You’re a born performer.

And entertainer.

An artist.

It nurtures your soul.

But why are you hiding?

Why have you shut off parts of you?

Believing that you’re not professional enough?

Or not pretty enough?

Or not smart enough?

Or that what you have to say isn’t important?

Sorry - WHAT?

That’s not how a star fucking shines.

It’s no good being a star if you don’t shine.

Daily.

And super bright.

I know the people who hang out in the cult of average,

Don’t really get your light,

Or particularly like it.

BLIND them baby.

I dare you.

I dare you to shine so bright.

That you give them something to talk about.

Be outrageous.

Be spontaneous.

Be crazy.

Be fun.

Be sentimental.

Be wise.

Be silly.

Be ALL of you.

Not part of you.

Because when you hide away parts of yourself,

The star begins to die inside.

And it doesn’t feel good!

You have all the answers.

You are ready to unleash.

It’s time.

Turn within,

Kick your head back,

Stare at the sky for a little and remind yourself,

You’ve got this baby.

P.S — If you KNOW that you are a star who was BORN to shine,

and if you KNOW that you’re ready to crank your light up so high,

and your message up so loud,

That people are literally blinded by your presence,

Then we need to talk.

I have one VIP 1:1 intensive day left.

It's in New Zealand.

And it's where we dive deep into your star energy,

Releasing any blocks that are currently holding you back,

And catapulting you drastically into stepping into the star that you were born to be.

Message me to find out how to apply.

So remember,

You absolutely CAN have it all - If you SHINE BRIGHT baby!!

Regan x

Photo: Jordan Starcher

Location: Slippery Stone Greek Restaurant

www.reganhillyer.com

YOU’RE A GOD DAMN SUPERSTAR AND YOU WERE BORN THAT WAY

You were born to shine
You were born to lead
You were born to stand out.

Which also means, yes,

You were born to polarise people,
To irritate some people,
To piss some people off with that bright light of yours.

But you don’t care,
You’re not phased,
In fact, you don’t blink an eyelid,
You wouldn’t give the naysayers the satisfaction.

Because your light is so bright,
And your heart beats so loud,
And your soul is so vibrant,
And your purpose pulsates so strong,
That if it is not unleashed,
It boils up inside,
It bottles up,
And you’ve learned,
That you MUST unleash it.

What you have to say is important.
What you believe is important.
You were given a voice for a reason,
Now go and use it honey!

I can’t hear you?
LOUDER!

Your voice has purpose.
Your voice has meaning.
And you were given your voice to impact millions…

But you already KNOW that.

Now you feel like you’re showing off.
I mean really, who are YOU to really have it ALL,
On your terms,
Exactly as you please,
RIGHT now?

And that’s when you know,
It’s time to shift your environment.

It’s time to shift further amongst people who lift you up,
Who keep you accountable,
People who adore your light,
People who notice when you stop showing off
And CALL you on it,
Because they understand that that’s a sign of playing small.
The CALL you out when you’re hiding.
They CALL you out when you let fear get in the way,
They CALL you out when you slip into an old identity.

An identity from the past,
An identity who feels comfortable,
An identity who fits in,
An identity who chooses not to put themselves out there.

But that identity is DONE.
It’s gone,
It’s banished,
It’s released,
It’s over.

Because you have called in your greatness,
And you have stepped up and into the next level.

And you have accepted that you won’t always feel like you belong,
And you won’t always feel like you fit in,
And you won’t always please everyone,
And you may be laughed at, ridiculed or mocked for standing in your light,
And you are willing to be misunderstood,
And you are willing to be judged,
And you are willing to sometimes stand alone,

Why?

Because you’re a god damn superstar, and you were BORN that way!

SUPERSTARS PUT YOUR HANDS UP!!!

>>> P.S If you KNOW that you are a god damn superstar and you are READY to fully and unapologetically unleash what you were born for, then you need to send me a private message me ASAP.

I am doing a series of VIP 1:1 days over the next 2 months.
There is only one left.
After reading this post, you will KNOW if this day is for you.
Message me ASAP and tell me WHY!

#superstar #youwerebornforit #vip

SHE WAS A SCAM ARTIST, AND I KNEW ALL ALONG...

Roughly 5 months ago I came across a woman who appeared to be very successful, very “together” and full of life.

After a few bubbly exchanges over Facebook messages,
We jumped on a call together,
To talk big vision and impact on a scale that most couldn’t fathom.


The call went well,

Yet there was a strange feeling I got afterwards.
Something wasn’t 100% right.
Something wasn’t adding up.
Or was I just in a weird mood?

Probably…
And just like that,
I brushed it off,
And ignored myself.

A couple of months later,
We caught up in person in LA.

Same as the phone call.
Pleasant,
Friendly,
Great conversation.

Yet STILL,
Something didn’t add up.

My friend who was there “LOVED” this woman.
And when I proceeded to tell her I was hesitant of her,
She thought I was crazy,
And a little judgmental.

Yet I wasn’t judging.
In fact,
There was NO logic at all behind my feelings.

She said nothing to offend,
Nothing that was out of line,
Yet the feeling remained.

And once again,
I brushed it off,
And ignored myself.

About a month ago,
It was revealed that this woman was a fraud.
And a fraud is a gentle label.
Scam artist is more appropriate.
She had not only ripped off multiple people in the industry,
But had hurt many people who I cared deeply about.

As one strong person came out of the woodwork and revealed the story,
Others emerged with similar stories,
And then others emerged not with direct stories,
But with gut feelings that they’d chosen to ignore.

I was one of those people,
Who turned inwards,
But brushed it aside,
And chose not to listen.

Lesson LEARNED.

Turn inwards.
Listen.
Trust.

Even if it’s not logical.

Your intuition is ALWAYS right.

So remember,
You absolutely CAN have it all - if you learn to trust yourself…

Regan x

📸 by Jordan Starcher
www.reganhillyer.com

I DON’T TOLERATE THAT SHIT! KEEP WHISPERING DARLING, I CAN’T HEAR YOU

If you don’t have people who disagree with you, are polarised by you or who even hate you, you’re not making enough noise.

Now, before I go any further,

I’m going to share some raw and real stories from the last WEEK that have happened in my life,
But PLEASE,
This is NOT a “poor me” post.
And please,
No “poor me” comments!

Because to be quite honest,
I couldn’t care less about what these people think about me,
And I actually like the fact that I polarise then,
Because they’re not the kind of people I want in my life...

This post is for all of the people who feel like they DO still care a little about what people think,
It’s for the people who struggle with haters,
And feel like they don’t fit in,
Or people don’t get them,
Or they have people that pull them down in their environment.

This message,
Is for you,
To give you strength.

So - I’ve had an INFLUX of haters in the last week,
People who literally can’t STAND to see me living the life I live,
So much so that it causes them to publicly write stupid things on my posts,
And tag their other (awesome) friends into the posts,
So that they can “gang up”,
And slam me also.

In the last week I’ve literally had it all:

Accusations that I “can’t be making the amount of money I say I make” because that’s “just ridiculous”,
Yes it is,
Ridiculous for you,
Because you’ll never see that much money in a year,
Let alone in a month…

Accusations that my relationship with Leigh is “fake”,
Whist writing snarky comments like “life goals” on a photo of us both.
And yes,
I would recommend that an amazing relationship with your soulmate should be one of your life goals,
So maybe you should write it on your own profile not on mine…

Accusations that my body is “photoshopped” in all of my photos.
I can see how you would think that,
I mean,
You have probably never been with a woman with half the body I have so,
I get it,
You don’t know what it looks like.

Accusations on a recent post (about a scam artist I came across),
That it takes one to know one,
Because I am a scam artist apparently.
Should add that to my CV
Wait, do scam artists have CVs?
Probably.
I’ll add it in ASAP….

Accusations on a photo of our villa in Bali that I take photos of hotels claiming that they’re mine.
Okay - not even going to argue against the stupidity of that lol…

And last but not least,
Wait for it...
Accusations that my hair is fake.
Pull it,
I dare you.
You'd think if I was wearing a wig that I’d at least get one that covered my whole head - I seemed to have missed a side???

SO
All of this was within the last 7 days!

Most of the comments have been deleted, (I think!)
And the people have been blocked,
Because I don’t tolerate that shit in my environment.

What amuses me the most,
Is that if I frustrate you THIS much,
Why do you continue to watch?

OOOOHHHH — I get it.

It’s because deep down,
You’re exceedingly insecure, unhappy and unfulfilled with your OWN life.

SO - just like a 5 year old does,
You’re mean to someone,
To make YOURSELF feel BETTER!

I get it now ;)

So for all of you who follow me,
Or know me personally,
Who watch me stand loudly in my message daily,
For all of you who are shocked by this post,
Because you don’t think I deal with people or comments like that,

I DO

Especially in the last week.

I'm just super fast at hitting the delete and block buttons!

And the sad thing is,
Most of these people are from my childhood,
They’re people I grew up with,
Went to school with,
And hung out with as a teenager.

Goes to show - you grow out of your environment huh?
And you HAVE to keep a tight lid on your environment if you truly want to be successful.
AND, you have to be BRUTAL about removing the shit from your life.

If you truly want to elevate your success,
You can’t have one toe in a circle of people like this.

And even for myself,
Someone who considers that their environment is extremely “clean” and filled with amazing people doing extraordinary things in this world,
It STILL manages to creep in.

So to everyone who can’t handle my life,
My success,
My have it all on my terms mentality,
NO PROBLEMO,
You’re blocked,
You go and live your life,
And I’ll go and live mine,
Deal?

And to everyone who has had to deal with negative people,
On any scale,
Bless and release,
Keep your environment clean.

People are either 100% in or 100% out,
And you have to be the one who is in control of your environment.

Now excuse me,
While I go and continue to travel the world in VIP style,
Impacting people all over the globe,
With my soulmate hunk of a fiancé by my side,
Earning multiple millions of dollars,
With a six pack,
And having a HELL of a good time a long the way!

Who’s coming with me???

Remember, you absolutely can have it all,
Regardless of what anyone else says!

Regan x
www.reganhillyer.com